Happy February to all of you....

Join hands for a love-filled february and all months that follow !!

Friday 30 September 2011

Take off those flabs!!!!

Visit to Sam's doc came like a shock to me....Waiting room with a weighing scale..Mumma lets try out !! ghosh...I gained another 5 kilos!!! Where the hell is all my morning exercise going? What is happening to my day long physical work and what about my family always telling me to keep sweet items equally in my diet for the balance...After all this, I gained another kilos!!! hmmmpphhh...shocked n sad I turned back the pages and tried to see what went wrong. Am I gonna keep struggling to maintain myself like this all my life. How lucky are those who don't gain weight so easily and for me, be strict for a month as there's a vacation or wedding approaching and those 3-4 days cover up all I shed...more than that at times :-(

SO, here goes my search again and I find some more facts, some that I knew but were better reminded and some I better know now !!We all know that losing weight means eating fewer calories, and burning more energy through physical activity. It sounds simple. But I know how hard I find burning those 50-100-150 calories on my cross-trainer.I'd share some-

-Holidays off and on might be good for your stress levels, but they could be bad for your weight. Eating out?? keep in mind to have foods in smaller portions because its usually the visible quantity in number that satisfies our satiety level :-) Have a pizza cut into 8 slices rather than 4 and you know you need to have 4 slices or may be 5 of THOSE 8 !!It takes up to 20 minutes for your body to let you know that you’ve eaten enough, so eat slowly and you’ll have a better chance of avoiding that over-stuffed feeling.
-Foods labelled low fat - They may be lowering fat but increasing upon sweetners...“Read the labels,” says Lisa Miles. “You need to look at the overall energy and calories. Remember, although a food may have a reduced amount of fat, it may still have the same amount of calories.”
Exercise n stress !! Both inter-related...
-“Snack on fruit and veg, and other low-calorie options such as plain popcorn, crackers and rice cakes,” says Anna Suckling. Try to find ways to cope with stress that don’t involve food. “Exercise helps promote mental wellbeing through the release of endorphins which help to combat stress," explains Anna.
-Telivison and weight - You have time and love to watch soaps or movies..DO so but not with popcorns or chips in hand but by placing your exercise bike in front of the TV !!
-Weight gain is a common side effect of many drugs. The most common drugs that can cause weight gain are steroids (taken for many conditions including arthritis, eczema and asthma), antidepressants such as amytriptiline, anti-epilepsy drugs and antipsychotic drugs.So, make sure you follow a healthy diet plan, good for both getting better faster and weight control.
- Dr Neil Stanley, sleep expert at the Norfolk and Norwich University Hospital, says,  "There seems to be a strong link between lack of sleep and putting on weight." A recent study from the University of Chicago found that lack of sleep increases levels of the hormone ghrelin, which makes you feel hungry.
-Table manners... Learn to say “no thank you,” and stick with it. Get used to the idea that it’s OK to leave food on your plate.

So far so good !! I'm so grateful to google. Its no less than a stressbuster when I hunt and find convincing answers ;-)

Monday 26 September 2011

ThankYou God for the World so sweet !!

Few such lines which I somehow keep humming , almost,always...are much more just the prayers from my childhood. They touch my soul and bring with them bright scenes of learning. Sam was so tired after her skating yesterday that she just wanted to get home....no marketing !! Sleep time and the bed and room was damn messy....SAMMIE..... time to sleep, pack up all your stuff..look at the room and the bed..why don't you take out one thing at a time to play..there's no space to step inside....and her beautiful eyes were following my words with a question - SO WHAT MUMMA!! I FELT LIKE PLAYING!!

Okay, I'll clean up the bed and you do the rest... Okay mumma....and there she goes sitting on the floor as I arrange the rest of the room. 5minutes...10minutes...All set except the floor and she speaks up - Mumma you just said na that the messy bed was IRRITATING you...now plz dont look at the floor until I say its done!! Okay ..make it fast....5minutes...10...15...20...My episode AXE ur EX was over..Cum'on sweety time to brush your teeth...Ohh Lord!! Wats this?? Half an hour and she was still busy playin and now she says - I'm too tired cos of skating..plz help me clean up mumma....

All done and we in bed chanting our daily prayers ..... I kept on instructing her to close her eyes n sleep..my hands go to her li'll feet massaging them as we lie together. There come a sweet voice and li'll fingers on my eyes - Mumma...thoda upar tak daba do na, achha lag raha hai :-) I just couldn't resist telling her - You know Sam when mumma, chhoti mumma (masi) and mamu were kids na....nanu used to press our feet daily like this for few minutes before sleep and in winters Mumma used to feel tooo cold, so he cuddled me in his lap and used to sit in my place and put me in bed when it was warm!! Sam - Mumma just like Papa does it for me...:-) Yes Babu. And nani used to give us milk, first thing in evening as soon as she reached home from office... Sam - just like you do when I wake up?? Shining eyes opened wide - Mumma when you were not a mumma but had chosen to have me, Did the blue fairy come to you to tell you to do all this?? mmmm.... Then howcome, all parents do such things, my friend also told me her parents do the same to make her sleep...DO you all discuss this on phone and do this to us kids??Me - Baby ask dadu dadi and nanu nani about this :-)

She gave a sweet smile and went off to sleep, again, leaving me wondering ..... TIME IS SO STRONG!! It makes us learn all thats needed. Some things come in only with time, age and experience....no words can teach all this. I don't remember mumma papa having sat with us to make us learn any prayers or bhajans and Sam too is learning just as easily :-) How I realise ITS NEVER LATE TO LEARN. I'm just as old as a mother as she is as a daughter, we both are just 5. I learn a lot from her about having been a daughter and about how to raise one !!

HAPPY DAUGHTER'S DAY DARLING !!